David Richards (1823-1902)
Our maternal grandfather David Richards,
recorded in his Bible that he was born in Cwmcracken,
near Nantyglo in South Wales
on 9 April 1823. Today,
Grandfather's birth place is just a very small area in the town of Nanty
Glo. Grandfather worked as a
Puddler in the ore refinery. A puddler
fulfilled a vital role, determining when the iron ore was hot enough to be
poured. Due to the intense heat, Puddlers often went
blind at a young age.
In 1844, Grandfather was a resident of Merthyr
and during this time married Margrate (Mary) Jones.
To them was born at least five children. It was while living in Britton Ferry
that David joined the Church. He was an active member and served some of this
time as a Branch President. In his diary he speaks of walking ten miles, after
his work days, to preach the gospel with missionaries, and of their successful
baptisms. Apparently he had charge of sale of books since he kept a record of
book sales for the local branch or mission. Branch records indicate that David
also served as Branch President in the Witten le Ware
Branch in Wales.
David had felt the spirit of gathering and for the next six
years he and his family lived in Scotland,
New Wales and in Durham, England
while they endeavoured to save sufficient funds to emigrate to America.
David Richards is listed in Church records as a Branch President in Britton
Ferry Branch in Durham England.
Mary was a baptized member but reportedly was never very accepting of her hsuband's long hours of devotion to Church activity.
Apparently, however, she cooperated with plans for their emigration and the
struggle to earn the monies to accomplish that goal.
The Richards family left Liverpool England
on 30 March 1860, sailing
for America on
an 1168 ton clipper ship, The Underwriter. Elder James D. Ross and his
counselors presided over the 594 Mormon passengers. Seventy of the emigrants
came from Switzerland
and the remainder from Great Britain.
During the crossing there were four deaths and four weddings. After a thirty-two
day passage, The Underwriter arrived at New York
on the 1st of May.
Eleven days later, the Richards were in Florence,
Nebraska where they made prepartions for crossing the plains, held meetings and
received instructions. The available records suggest the following ages for the
Richards family: David 46, his wife Mary 51, and children Miriam 13, Jane 11,
William D. 7 and Reese Mormon 4 years of age. (There is obviously some
discrepancy in David's age, he may have been 37 years
and his wife also younger).
The Richards pioneer group was the Daniel Robinson Company
composed of British saints and families from the Eastern States Mission. They
were the first handcart company of the season, leaving Florence,
Nebraska on 6 June 1860. The company consisted of 233 souls who
traveled with 6 wagons, 43 handcarts, 38 oxen and 10 tents. David prepared a
handcart for their trip since that is obviously all they could afford. The
handcarts were 4 x 6 x 1 ½ feet deep. They were permitted to take only 13
pounds per persons which generally included food and one change of clothing.
The Richards walked, pushing or pulling (according to the terrain) their
precious handcart, carrying all of their earthly belongings. They had many
hardships but "few tragic difficulties." Some sickness prevailed during the
journey and one 2 year old child died. With the exception of two weeks of
drenching showers, the weather was beautiful for the entire trek. The group was
often spoken of as the "Singing Welchmen" since they
did enjoy singing.
A few days prior to the arrival of the Daniel Robinson
Company in the Salt Lake
Valley, Brigham Young sent
messengers to meet the saints and assist them in to the valley. The messengers
brought the saints 2500 pounds flour and 500 pounds bacon. The pioneer company
arrived in Salt Lake
on Monday evening, 27 August 1860.
As they reached the camping grounds opposite the 8th Ward-school
house, thousands of citizens gathered to welcome them. A Captain Balls and his
band gave them a hearty welcome. Bishop Edward Hunter brought edibles and
vegetables to refresh them.
Some three years after the arrival of the Richards family in
Salt Lake,
Mary and the children left for California
with some friends who with her had become disillusioned with the Church and the
valley. They were disenchanted and bitter and could not be convinced otherwise
(A great granddaughter, Ina Meaker, stated that
Grandmother Richards "did not like to live and raise her family under Mormons'
outlandish ways!"). David followed the California-bound group for some distance
to try to persuade his wife to change her mind, but to no avail. David returned
to Salt Lake City and the saints.
Nothing is known of any further contact David had with Mary or the children,
but he at least knew of Mary's death as he was later sealed to her. Mary
apparently did not re-marry.
David lived in Beaver, Utah
for a short time, married Mary Ann Smith in 1872, divorced in 1881. He was
sealed to a 'dead' sister in 1882, followed by a one year marriage to Margrate Thomas, divorcing in 1885. During the month before
he married our Grandmother, David was sealed to his first wife, Margaret Jones
and two additional 'dead' sisters. Thus Grandmother was wife #7. Sometime
during these years, Grandfather moved to Hinckley where
he homesteaded a twenty acre farm, cleared the land of sage and grease wood and
began farming.
While visiting in Richfield,
Grandfather David was introduced to our Grandmother, Margaret Christensen Beck,
by Karen Christensen, a dear friend of Grandmother and an acquaintance of
David. Karen was the sister who befriended Margaret when she first came to the Richfield
area and started dressmaking, shortly after her arrival in Utah.
Grandmother Margaret said that though David was 37 years her senior, he was a
find man and represented stability and security, something this little lady had
not experienced during her residence in America.
Her little son, Lyman, was then five. She had divorced Christen Beck just a few
months prior to Lyman's birth. Marriage to David promised a better life. It was
not a matter of love, she said, but "I liked him."
David and Margaret were married in the Manti
Temple on 8 July 1891 and went immediately to Hinckley
to live on his farm. Their little humble home with adobe walls, and a thatched roof
consisted of a 14 x 14 foot room and a small lean-to which served as a kitchen.
The floors were dirt at first, then rough lumber and eventually covered by a
rag rug carpet made on a neighbors loom. Grandmother loved her home and our Mom
remembers the security she felt in this little abode. Grandfather had some
difficulty understanding his wife's ways and was "sometimes cross and bossy but
a good man."
Farming became a joint effort as Margaret would assist with
the harvesting, pitching hay and grain and she always milked their one cow. But
Grandfather was not a young man and the burden of livelihood became
increasingly Margaret's responsibility. Young Lyman assisted as he became older
but had difficulty meeting the expectations of his exacting stepfather who
expected complete obedience and had little patience with him. To supplement the
income, Grandmother continued her dressmaking, often sewing through the night.
Dora, their first child was born 30 July 1892, and always said that her Dad never did
forgive her for not being a son. David, born 1894, was the pride and joy of his
father and was a "fine young man." Our Mom Elsie arrived 1 March 1897 and was said to have been "terribly
spoiled" by both mother and father. Grandfather was very strict with Lyman and
Dora but there reportedly was no punishment for Dave and Elsie who could get
away with anything. Dora assumed the big sister role, was a great protective
ally to the older brother Lyman, and continued throughout her life as a
devoted, helpful one to Dave and Elsie.
Mom Elsie, though just 5 years old
at the time of her father's death, had vivid memories about him but admitted
that some may have been from hearing the oft repeated recollection of her Mom.
Grandfather had a fine singing voice and loved to sing. Mother remembered her
father teaching little Welch songs and verses to her. One of these songs she
often sang in Welch to us children and interpreted these words: "Where is
Jesus" Where is Jesus, In the Heaven. Search for Him,
Search for Him, all ye people." Our Mom was asked to sing at a Stake conference
(when under 5 years of age!). Grandfather had her stand on the pulpit and held
her as she sang for the congregation. Apparently it was a big success but
Grandmother was absolutely humiliated since her artistic darning work on the
knees of young Elsie's stockings was evident to the audience.
Unusual faith and devotion to the Church were among David
Richard's greatest strengths. He "enjoyed the spirit of the Lord" and gave
strict observance to living his religion. Grandfather was a high priest. He had
the gift of healing to such an extent that people came from all over for his
administrations. The Richards children were frequent recipients of his
blessings and he would have Grandmother bathe the children prior to the
blessings so that they would be clean and the Holy Ghost might be in
attendance. The family knew very little sickness prior to their family
patriarch's death. Grandfather also had the gift of tongues and utilized this
gift on several occasions. Another of David's roles was acting as a doctor of
sorts. He was frequently called upon to set broken bones and such.
Mom Elsie enjoyed telling us little bits she remembered of
her childhood. The following incident was one which Mom said was typical of the
times. Grandfather had a nice little grain crop one year. He'd built brush
barriers since they had not had the finances to provide fences. Here came one
of Hinckley's residents with a band of horses ready to
drive through the grain which was coming along so well. Grandfather went out
and told the man not to cross his land. The man told Grandfather to go to H***
and proceeded to drive on. At the Sunday Services each week, it was customary
to have a request for notices 'does anyone want to give out a notice' There
would be a variety of responses in addition to Church announcements i.e.: We need
some help on a farm, or There's a ditch meeting to be held, etc. The Sunday
following the above incident, Grandfather volunteered a notice at Church. "There's
a man who came and drove his horses across my field last week and I told him, 'Don't
drive your horses across my field' and he said, 'You
go to H*** and I said, 'You go to H* yourself, d* you.' And his name is Wililam B. Elder." It seems that a very embarrassed Brother
Elder in attendance at the meeting was seen to slide down in his chair
mumbling.
Perhaps Mom's most significant memory of her Father involved
a stroke which he had some time prior to the stroke that took his life. Mom
recalled, "I can still picture it, either from Mother telling me or my own
memory, I'm not sure which. He was sitting out in the big chair under a tree.
And he couldn't say a word, but he mumbled. Mother seemed to understand that he
wanted the Bishop, but he couldn't express it. So she sent for Bishop Pratt, a
kindly old gentleman. Bishop Pratt came and blessed him, administered to him
and asked if he could be made better. Almost immediately Father's voice
returned and he began singing, "The Spirit of God Like
a Fire is Burning." Such a great testimony to us that he gave
credit to the Lord."
On April 22nd,
1902, when our Mom Elsie was just five years old, her father
suffered the second stroke which completely paralyzed him and he lived just a
few days. A wooden casket was made by one of the men in Hinckley.
Grandmother had just five dollars in the house and that bought handles for the
casket. The Relief Society sisters covered the casket with cloth, then put a
white flannel lining inside the casket and "made it look nice." Grandmother
always made the burial and temple clothes for all Hinckley's
dead, including men's tailored white suits. This she did with her little treddle sewing machine. Mom remembered very well seeing her
Father in the casket; Her Mother holding her up so she could see him more
clearly and five year old Elsie leaning down and kissing her Father goodbye.
David Richards was buried in the Hinckley
cemetery. The headstone which our Mom had placed at her father's grave many
years ago is still clearly readable. Eloise has had flowers placed on
Grandfather's grave at Memorial Day during recent years.
Millard County Court records include David's handwritten
last will and testament which indicate that he being of sound mind, did
bequeath and endow all residue of his estate one wagon- $18, cow- $20,
household goods- $25. With estimated value at $538. No mention is made of the
home.
Mother Elsie often spoke of the choice heritage that had
been hers. By worldly standards, the Richards family could have been classed as
deprived but apparently David and Margaret thought otherwise, and instilled
that in their children. Some of our choicest genes (and as our Dad would say 'good
blood') certainly were inherited from this stalwart Welchman
who sacrificed much for the testimony he had embraced. David Richards stayed
true to the end.
In honor of our Mormon Pioneer ancestor, we have sent a
check to the National Society of the Sons of the Utah Pioneers Headquarters at
3301 E. 2920 So. in Salt
Lake, 84109. A plaque memoralizing Grandfather Richards will be placed in the
Pioneer Memorial Gallery wall in the special section honoring Pioneers who's
arrival in Utah preceeded the railroad. The next panel will be placed when
sufficient requests are received to complete the panel of plaques. It may take
several months. But do plan to visit the Sons of the Pioneers Pioneer Memorial
Gallery and check on your Grandfather David Richards!